Coaching is about asking the right
questions thus drawing from the inside wells of the Coachee. It is not about
helping people or giving them the answers. Why? We do not follow the same path
to life and happiness. Everyone wants different things from life. So there is
no one right path to fulfillment and happiness in life.
Now let us look at what coaching is
not
Now that we have defined what coaching
is, let’s look at what coaching is not:
1) Consultants
Consultants give you advice about things you have
to do and how you should do them. On the other hand, Coaches support, challenge
and encourage you, while you work out the best thing to do and the most
effective way for you to do it.
2) Trainers
Trainers teach you to attain a degree of
proficiency in an activity or skill, in a short time frame. But Coaches are
entrusted to support your development consistently over a period of time.
3) Mentors
A Mentor invites you to learn from his own
experiences, knowledge, and skills. Mentors can also be coaches, working with
you as a trustworthy sounding board. But unlike coaches, they may also offer opinions
or personal insights to support your development.
Counselors
Counselors look at the ‘why’ of a problem or
issue starting from the past and present and want to solve it. They may give advice
along the way. Counseling provides the client with the opportunity to discuss
what the client thinks about their problem. At times there is a fine line
between coaching and counseling as there are several skills that are similar,
however the role of the coach is different.
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