Have you ever suffered as a result of wounds from a previous love
relationship? More often than not, people suffer some bruises from
former love relationships especially when those relationships get
terminated. People have been bruised and battered by life. They are left
with scars. Different people react differently to such occurrences.
However, there is a positive side to the scars of life. Do not focus on
the negative side. The positive side to it is that you learn some
valuable lessons that can help you in a future relationship. This
happens if you have a positive attitude.
If you were hurt by your
last relationship, you need to be repaired and healed first before you
look for a new lover or partner. This will avoid pretense and instead,
you will show the real you in a new love relationship. Any potential
lover of your life wants to see the real you. Pretending to be someone
you are not may lead to the two of you suffering. Some bitterness or
negative responses may arise when you are with your new lover, which are
a result of the former hurts. So you need to be ready to meet a new
lover.
“Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled” (Hebrews 12:15).
A
mistake in a new relationship may lead to more hurts and bruises. If
you are not ready, there will be problems even if you can find someone
who will love and care for you. Someone who enters into a new
relationship with hurts and bruises may survive for a while in the
comfort of a partner who loves and cares. However, the bad side of it is
that once the healing process is complete, the person may start
changing and become a new one (the real). He may start looking at things
differently and feel like he is not in a right relationship. That may
result in problems and the love relationship may not last for long.
The
favor you can do for yourself and the potential partner would be to
hide for a while. Let your wounds be healed. By so doing you will be
fair to yourself and to the potential partner. That is taking
responsibility and exercising true love for the other person. The other
person does not know your condition but you do. Instead, facilitate your
healing by enjoying your friends and family until you fully recover so
you can move on with your life.
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Thursday, January 19, 2017
Get Over your former love wounds before entering into a new relationship

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