Do you enjoy your own company? Are you happy with yourself? Many
people do not enjoy their own company. That is one reason why they
quickly move from one love relationship to another. If you follow up on
why such is happening, you find that they are scared of living without a
love relationship.
Mat 22:39 The second most important commandment is like this one. And it is, “Love others as much as you love yourself.”
In order to be able to love anyone, you must first love yourself.
Enjoy being with yourself. There are people who enjoy other people’s
company. That is understandable because we are social beings. But if you
hate spending time with yourself such that you cannot live without
other people is unhealthy. This extends to the issue of love
relationships. After separation with one’s love partner, some people
can’t live by themselves. They cannot live happily as singles.
Before you can expect happiness from a love relationship, learn to
enjoy your life even if you are single. True happiness should not be
expected from other people. This is because if they fail to bring you
that happiness, you will live a sour life.
Make your life beautiful on your own. Build your life based on good
values. Be happy as a single individual. Create your own joy and
happiness. If that happens, you will attract people who will share your
values, people who are happy. If you find or attract a happy life
partner, you will be a happy couple. Happiness is contagious. So if you
can’t be happy with yourself, you can’t expect your life partner to
bring you happiness. They say, “Like attracts like.”
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Sunday, February 12, 2017
First be Happy with Yourself before you can be Happy with Your Life Partner
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Elphas Sipho Mdluli
Small Business/Executives & Marriage Coach. Also Senior Pastor and Visionary of Freedom Centre International Church in Swaziland. Previously worked as General Manager of a financial institution.
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